Two weeks

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Registered: 03-24-2007
Two weeks
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Tue, 04-03-2007 - 10:25am

Well its been just over 2 weeks since we broke up. I havent been in contact for well over a week. At the moment i dont feel any urge to contact him first of all because im hurt and angry and want some distance. At first it was hell because i wanted him to know all the pain he was putting me though. It didnt seem fair he was unaware of how much i was hurting. Everytime something came into my head i wanted him to know about it. Then i realised- he is aware.

He knows i love him and he knows im devestated we broke up. Crying, screaming and begging doesnt change anything. In fact it just made things worse as i either got no response or a response i didnt want to hear.

At the same time i am still struggling with the fact i havent heard from him. I know its good in the long run because it doesnt give me false hope, but i feel as if he doesnt even miss me. When i spoke to him last he seemed so unaffectted by the whole thing, almost to the point he wasnt even involved! winds me up!

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Registered: 10-22-2004
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 12:04pm
Your going to be ok. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but your still in the early stages, and the pain is still fresh. You really don't know how he's feeling, so don't assume, unless your willing to find out. I would suggest you don't, and go thru the drama and pain. Just know, it will all end one day, you have to believe that. It doesn't seem like it, but you will survive this. Remember, women are better with coping, because we know how to deal with things better than men. It just sucks, that we have to go thru it. Men really don't know how to deal with things, so they ignore there feelings, and act like they don't care, and jump into another relationship. Don't do that, take time out for yourself. During this, you will learn alot about you, and learn what you need to do the next time around. I wish you peace,
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 04-03-2007 - 12:21pm

Hi never_hurt_so_much,


::At the same time i am still struggling with the fact i havent heard from him. I know its good in the long run because it doesnt give me false hope, but i feel as if he doesnt even miss me. When i spoke to him last he seemed so unaffectted by the whole thing, almost to the point he wasnt even involved! winds me up!


Everyone feels this way, if you read enough stories on the board.