...and at 33 days, he contact me. lol.
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| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 10:18am |
well, i'm just posting this as living proof of many of the excellent insights offered in the expert advice section. i've been moving on, getting comfortable with NC (33 days), and WHAM, the realization that he hasn't heard from me apparently prompted him to contact me, via IM, last night.
and the thing is, i didn't even want to respond. not with any of the smartass responses i've periodically entertained myself with in (partial) expectation of just this scenario occuring. not with half-ass hi how are you conversation, not with something angrier, like "leave me alone." i just had nothing to say. and so that's what i did, i kept NC intact, i said nothing, and it feels fantastic.
i hope this is another step in the right direction. perhaps we'll speak again someday, but it'll be if and when i'm ready...
| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 12:11pm |
| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 5:13pm |
