He wants to have the talk

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2007
He wants to have the talk
2
Sun, 04-08-2007 - 1:34pm
Well he wants to have the separation talk today.. I really don't want to be near him let alone talk to him. I don't know what he wants from me... everyday he asks me what's wrong! Like is he kidding.. What's wrong.. well let's see my husband is leaving me ... we have a 16 month old ....we just bought a damn house. what else could be wrong.. oh I don't know hmmm lets see. He just doesn't get it it doesn't get how hard this is for me. He's completely oblivious to what I am going through!!!!!!He doesn't care that seeing him tears me apart! That even hearing his voice right now makes me so angry I could scream!!!!! But hey WHAT"S WRONG WITH ME!!! grrrrrrrr
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 04-08-2007 - 1:58pm
If you feel angry at him and don't want to face him alone, then take a third party with you; someone neutral to conduct things in a civil manner. No yelling back and forth and not asking you "what's wrong with you?".
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-08-2007 - 2:54pm

HUGS to you lorihannah,


Here's your previous posts so others can catch up on your story:


falling apart faster everyday