forgiving yourself?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
forgiving yourself?
6
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 2:23pm
Day 5 NC, gosh its so hard...why does it seem easier to forgive him, than to forgive myself?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 7:39pm

Hi,


Most of us are harder on ourselves. It takes time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 8:32am

Thank you, i will go by books a million today. i purchased He's Scared/She's scared yesterday and I am 1/2 through that. It is a very enlightening book so far, and alot of it is right on the mark. These boards are a such a big help. Thanks for being there.

sassisizz

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2006
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 1:45pm

"He's Scared/She's scared "


What is that about?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 2:28pm

Hi,
Understanding the hidden fears that sabotage your relationships,
I read about it in one of the other posts from sandradee.
It is a really good book, even has a couple of exercises for you to do, to better understand why we pick the ppl we do, and tips to help you break the cycle. I saw myself and some of the things i did in some of the descriptions and i also saw him and how he behaved in some. Its been 1 week today he left without word, the book helped me see some things about myself that i am determined to change, so i can move on with my life, and maybe next time (whenever that will be). I will be able to make a better choice. I highly reccomend it.

He's scared
She's scared
by: steven carter and julia sokol

sassi

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2006
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 2:49pm
Awesome! I just amazoned it (like I have time to go to the bookstore these days) and I can't wait to read through it. Thanks for the insight.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Tue, 04-10-2007 - 2:53pm

Let me know what you think after reading it.
We will get through this.