our talk didn't go well :(

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Registered: 05-16-2003
our talk didn't go well :(
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Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:21am

ok.. so our talk didn't go as planned. The right words couldn't come out. I know I kept thinking about what I wanted to say all day yesterday, but I knew that something isn't right about our relationship. I love him so much, but we can't make it work because we have different plans for the future. I would sacrifice and just be companions but he said I would resent him for that. He's right! I don't want that. I'm hurting.. I'm here now on this board and I'm crying!!! It's hard to turn away when we both feel strongly about each other.

I have to start to do the no contact thing in order for us to get our feelings on that friend level.. He doesn't quite understand, but he said I have to do what I have to do. He still wants us to support each other as friends. He said that's what friends do..

NO contact is going to be sooo painful. Especially when we see each other every weekend at work. :'( :'( :'(

I'm hurting BAD!!!!!!!!!

Gina
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 2:49pm

Hi skittlesrock,


It's going to be hard to see him every weekend. Sorry you are going through this.




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Registered: 05-16-2003
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 3:16pm
thanks.. Yea this hurts!! we had a good relationship, yea coulda worked on the communication, but we cared deeply for each other. I did and would do anything for him. I gave him respect, loyalty, honor, love, compassion. I saw him as the one taking care of me for life.
Gina