long term break up aaaaggghh
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long term break up aaaaggghh
| Wed, 09-05-2007 - 1:34pm |
For 26 years I was with the same guy. Our relationship was very complicated as well as dysfunctional. Finally after all these years I grew out of it. Unfortunaltely now he cant handle it.
I am really okay with it. in the begining i wasnt emotional but now having to deal with him being soooo emotional & depressed. I am finding it hard not to grieve.
I realize that it is no ones fault that it took soo long to end & that he now has a realization that he wants to spend life with me. Like I am the one keeping him alive. For years all this man did was try to get out of the relationship sooooo why why why does he now after I am finally done with it decide to care????
is this typical of crazy men or what???
I am really okay with it. in the begining i wasnt emotional but now having to deal with him being soooo emotional & depressed. I am finding it hard not to grieve.
I realize that it is no ones fault that it took soo long to end & that he now has a realization that he wants to spend life with me. Like I am the one keeping him alive. For years all this man did was try to get out of the relationship sooooo why why why does he now after I am finally done with it decide to care????
is this typical of crazy men or what???

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