Getting over Him, HELP!!
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Getting over Him, HELP!!
| Wed, 09-05-2007 - 3:51pm |
Okay, I hope that I'm not the only person out here who has had to deal w/ a situation like this before. I am currently infactuated with a person who I know I will never eventually "be" with. Things started a year ago, friends at first, hanging out with the same group of people, then things tured into something way more. We realized that we actually really liked eachother and then things turned physical. So you're probably thinking "whats the problem?", well he was the ex of one of the girls in "our circle". They broke up years before, but she was still trying to pursue him. Our relationship was basically a secret from everyone else and we snuck around like high school kids afraid of getting caught by our parents instead of the grown up 20 somethings that we were. We would go back and forth between the idea of letting people know our secret or to keep it under wraps. Well the pressure got to him and he stopped communicating with me on a regular basis while continuing to be physical with me. As of late we are still physical, but we dont talk nearly as much and he has moved in with the mother of his children. I know what the natural reaction should be to such news, but I havent been able to get this person out of my mind. Any ideas????

Welcome to the board vonnie_24,
::As of late we are still physical, but we dont talk nearly as much and he has moved in with the mother of his children.
He's living with someone else, to me that would make him UNAVAILABLE.