Try to get him back, or let it go

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Try to get him back, or let it go
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 5:48am
My boyfriend of 7 years decided that are relationship problems were unfixable and moved out. We lived together for 2 years, with a mutual friend. He blaims the problems we had on me for being dishonest because I associated with people he did not think were trustworthy or descent, therefore he said I was not trustworthy, although I never cheated on him, and cheating was never the issue. It has been 3 months now, and we have been talking, and spending time together. I am having trouble figuring out if he is using me, and has no intention of being in a relationship with me again. Any advice?
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 2:34pm

Welcome to the board tigerlily029,


::It has been 3 months now, and we have been talking, and spending time together. I am having trouble figuring out if he is using me, and has no intention of being in a relationship with me again.


Sometimes it's just comfortable to still hang out and move the relationship to 'friends with benefits' - you have to decide what you want.... you may be reading more into it than is there. What I mean is, I'm not sure he's 'using you' but he may not be interested in a real relationship again, especially if he can have all the benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of that relationship.


Good luck on your decision.




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