HELP!! need support now PLEASE!!!
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| Fri, 09-07-2007 - 9:15am |
Hi everyone,
I wrote a few days ago with my post entitled "can I lean on you guys?". Well, suddenly my situation took a turn for the worse and now I REALLY need support so I'm hoping you all can help me.
Just to recap, I broke up with my now ex, on Tuesday of this week. Long story short, he's an addict that is now back on pills, alcohol, and most recently, crack. Well, last night his friend/landlord/boss called me while I was out getting my hair done. He's done this in the past to ask me if my ex was "up to no good". Last night he apologized for calling after the breakup, but he said he was about to kick my ex out and fire him if he's doing what he thinks he is. I confirmed his suspicions and told him everything. The friend also confided in me that my ex is a true player and uses everyone.
Here is where I am hurt. The friend told me that my ex called him the day I broke up with him and said "I'm going to jennifer's" - (she is an "ex" who he claimed to his friend nauseates him, and he only stays with her and has sex with her to get xanax and whatever other pills she gives him). Well, the night I broke up with him that's where he went and he was there last night also. I tried to text him with a simple "can we talk?" (I just wanted to make sure he was ok and make sure he wasn’t really at a motel doing something horrible) and I got a text back that said "f*** you!". I was so hurt and upset all night long that I didn’t sleep and now I'm at work basically just trying to hang in there. The friend said its for the best and that I did a smart thing by leaving when I did. It just hurts that he is so quickly able to be with someone else after I left and that he is so vicious and unwilling to even speak. I'm just so confused and hurt here and I'm waiting for Monday to get here so I can see my new counselor. I'm just hoping in the meantime you all can just lend some support and give some words of advice. I have plans tonight to see my best friend and I don’t even want to see her, I just want to go home and curl up in bed and sleep.
| Fri, 09-07-2007 - 10:00am |
