He lies to me but i still like him help!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2007
He lies to me but i still like him help!
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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 2:04pm

this guy i have liked for a while now keeps telling me that he loves me and things and then he goes and tells people that he doesnt even like me and im just an obbessed freak .

But some how everytime i think its time to get over him he sweet talks me and i end up loveing him again .

atm he's acting off with me which is really annoying because i REALLY REALLY like him i think i "love" him and i really want him to say i love you which he has allways done in the past even though i know deep down he is lieing but it makes my happy just to think that a might have a chance .

I have had my chances with him in the past but i have blew them all which i really regret.

But he is an idiot and i still really like him but its time to get over him even though i really want to just carry cliging on.

I dont just want to forget about him either if i cant have him in a relationship i want him in a friendship.

Please help me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2007
Sat, 09-08-2007 - 7:19pm
Why would you even want a friend who you feel lies to you???? Look I am not perfect as you can read a post I posted a few days ago with my issue. Before this guy I dated...I dated a total liar...And all I kept remebering was people telling me why do you want to be with someone you can't trust? It took me years to realize this and this is why i broke up with my recent ex-boyfriend. I could not trust him, not worth the headaches & paranoia darling...Not even as a friend...plus you would only being lying to yourself if you beleive you want him ONLY as a friend...Take it from someone who knows...Goodluck
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 09-08-2007 - 8:12pm

Welcome to teh board rachhuster,


Most liars are charming and very flattering.