Breaking up after 4 years & angry

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Registered: 04-05-2003
Breaking up after 4 years & angry
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 4:39pm

Hi-

My "boyfriend" decided he wanted to break up after 4 years of dating. This person led me onto believe we were getting married. He even bought an engagement ring about 3 years ago. I have even called him on "leading me on" about a year ago. Which I think is dispicable.
He is 44, lives w/ his Mom, never lived away from home, and is really inexperienced with dating.
I am vert hurt by him & his actions. I just want to tell him off, but I know I should remain calm as it is not worth it. Any advice??

Thanks,
Charmed

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 3:51pm

Welcome to the board charmed318,


Journal writing and writing UNSENT letters is a great way to blow off steam, tell him everything you want to tell him and then burn the letters.


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