So Confused

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Registered: 08-14-2007
So Confused
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Fri, 09-14-2007 - 10:28am
I have had no contact w/ my ex for about 3 weeks (YAY). I haven't seen him in about 4 weeks (which is a good thing). He sent me a text message this week. I wanted to be strong and not respond but I did. He saw a picture of me and a friend that he works w/. Asking me when I hang out w/ this person and telling me my hair looks cute! WHAT???
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: angie_k_r
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 1:46pm

Hi

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: angie_k_r
Mon, 09-17-2007 - 6:14am

Hi angie,

His actions don't say he wants to get back in your life, just that he wants the two of you to be "cool." If he can show the Universe that you're okay with him, then that must mean what he did wasn't all that bad, see? Clears him of wrongdoing. Since he cheated on you and is now dating the girl he cheated on you with, I'd say nix on that. Cheaters don't deserve that privilege, they really don't. I have yet to speak to either of the two men who cheated on me, and I highly doubt I ever will again. I've forgiven them, however, that doesn't mean I ever have to allow them into my life again. You may consider that.

Also, NOW your ex is showing his truest colors, because I highly doubt his new girlfriend even knows he's trying to keep in contact with you. How would you feel if you were in her shoes right about now? If she knew about you when they started up, then yes, what goes around, comes around. And if she didn't know, then don't go dishing out the raw deal you got, okay? So effectively he's going to stray on her too, he's already trying to start down that path with you.

For the rest of your life remember this: If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you, and that doesn't change. You're one lucky chica to get away from his mess, don't drag yourself back into it.

Good luck!

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