which way to go

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
which way to go
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Wed, 09-19-2007 - 8:50am

Hi Everyone,


I really need an advice from you. I'll try to be short and give you only the facts.


My boyfriend and I (we are both 32) recently took a break because he is not sure that he wants kids in the future. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me (these are his words) but not sure about wanting to have children. We have been together for 18 months. His parents got divorced when he was

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: keyuree1
Wed, 09-19-2007 - 1:02pm

Welcome to the board keyuree1,


Only you know how long you are willing to wait.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
In reply to: keyuree1
Wed, 09-19-2007 - 10:01pm

He did not say how much time he needs. He said that he needs to collect his thoughts so he can give me an answer that he will not regret later. I try to be patient and wait but it is kind of frustrating for me. He said I'm the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life but he is not sure about wanting to have kids. So I guess I can't do anything else but wait and you are right...it is up to me for how long I can do this.


Thanks for your reply