4 Months NC
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| Thu, 09-27-2007 - 10:38am |
I posted here (after the end of my 2 year relationship) when I hit my 2 months, when I was still in pretty bad shape, and wrote that I hoped to be in a different place after another 2 months. I am.
NC is the only way to go. Looking back I am just sorry it took me 3 tries to finally master it, because each time I messed up and broke it I only felt worse because it was clear my ex was only humoring me and didn't truly want to be in touch, and probably ruined any chances of us getting back together. Each time I contacted, I could almost hear him cringe. So ladies, dont do it!
I also found that it took about 3 months of NC for me to stop crying and journaling on a daily basis. Thats another thing - dont listen to people who tell you to "get over it" and "just stop thinking about him and move on."

Glad to hear that you are doing better.
Hi waterworks2007,
I'm bumping up your story so others can read something inspiring.
It was very helpful for me to read your email.
Hi Waterworks,
Thank you so much for posting this message.
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Neko,
HANG IN THERE!!! I know exactly how you feel about the instant messages.