Time to Move On...

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Registered: 09-19-2007
Time to Move On...
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Thu, 09-27-2007 - 12:31pm

Hello Everyone... Well it is time to walk the path of heartbreak and recovery. He broke up with me two days ago after a couple of weeks of space (I do feel like the space

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 09-27-2007 - 9:50pm

Hi femcat77,


Thanks for posting your inspiring words. I hope it helps someone else.

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 4:37pm

"after a couple of weeks of space (I do feel like the space

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:21pm

Welcome to the board hotkarina72 -


Glad you stopped lurking and were able to post. :0)





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Registered: 09-19-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:22pm

You sound like a very strong woman, yet... isn't it amazing how even strong women, as many of us are on here and

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Registered: 09-19-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:25pm
I just looked at your profile... wow! 5 sisters... that is some support system :o)
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Registered: 09-19-2007
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 5:33pm

Hi, femcat.

I also have been gaining a lot of strength from coming here and sharing with people in similar situations.

I am fortunate that in my relationship there was minimal finger pointing. My beloved and I always worked to recognize and "own" our own issues and parts played in our relationship challanges. Hard work, that is! But positive. In this ending, I spend a lot of time directing compassionate thoughts to both myself and my beloved, and this is helping me heal so quickly.

I, too, print out documents from here, my therapist's e-mails, and other sources of wisdom, and carry them around in my pocket. Whenever doubt or worry or fear or pain strikes me, I have something appropriate to read that will help me turn the experience into positive growth.

I also have an amazing support system. The love of friends and family make a huge difference.

And, yes, getting back to me.

Good thoughts to you. Thank you for sharing your positive words!

Claudia

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 09-28-2007 - 6:29pm

Yeah, I have a big network of support, actually it's 4 sisters and like 10 good gfs that are supporting.

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Registered: 12-16-2006
Wed, 10-03-2007 - 7:22am
Sounds like the same thing I just got over.