about to do something dumb???

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Registered: 05-31-2006
about to do something dumb???
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Sun, 09-30-2007 - 3:06am
my fiance of 1.5 years broke up with me 5 months ago. he was 11 years older than me (46, me 35) with two teenage kids who live with him full-time. it was a challenging situation at times but the break-up was unexpected for me - he said he wasn't coping and couldn't see us working. (we weren't living together but were planning to later this year). his kids and i got on great and
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Registered: 09-30-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 10:04am

Please, do not contact him!!


I am in a similar situation and I understand how you feel but you shouldn't make any contact.

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Registered: 09-29-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 10:15am

First let me say I am so sorry for how you're feeling~ I can relate to your situation.... I raixed my ex BF's 3 kids for three years; while their mother was out becoming a meth addict.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 2:09pm

Welcome back curlylocks2006,


I think you have moved through a lot of stuff and yet you haven't grieved for the loss of his family.