First NC, then bad news, how could he?
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| Sun, 09-30-2007 - 11:05am |
The guy who I've been with for 2 months suddenly dropped me out of the blue. We arranged a date for the following day, everything seemed normal then when I tried to contact him, he acted like I was dead!! (OUCH!!) Its been over a week now with NC and its killing me but I'm trying to get over it. I did try to contact him like an idiot a few times leaving messages after 5 days of NC, first sounding concerned, then just plain being pissed because that's just hurtful, at least give me some closure I thought we got along good enough to end it the right way. If he would have called back to just say hey its over, I'm a big girl I'll get over it, but how when everything was so good, NO RESPONSE???!!! That's just wrong! I ended up just saying have a nice life!! I'm completely heart broken especially because this came out of left field, NOT EXPECTED!!
In the beginning of all this he made me think I was the ONE. He brought me to meet his entire family. We drove to every relatives house!, he pulled out all his baby pictures, took me to church every week, was telling me he was in love with me, sending flowers the whole nine yards. Pretty quick but the way we met seemed to coincidental like it was meant to be. Our families were even lifelong friends. My father lived with his uncle in his 20's and hung out with the whole family and his father hung out with all my uncles, it seemed too good! Up until the NC it was perfect,

Hi beena,
Here's your first post so others can catch up with your story: What's his problem???
You are going to have to be strong and move forward with your healing.