WTF

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
WTF
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Tue, 10-02-2007 - 8:13am

ok~ weve been broken up for a month... a month yesterday.... nc whatsoever....


he moved back in with his ex- ex w that is.... then out of the blue... out of the f$%^ blue i get a voice mail 5 min ago.... w/ him telling me he loves me...


i am shaking.... i want to f&*) cry. WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2004
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 8:38am

one advice... BREATH...


i know what you are going through.. after my break up a month after he started seeing his co-worker... and guess what he trys to call me so he can get intimate... seriously WTF is up with this men...


jsut relax and breath try to avoid him as much as you can. its hard but there is always light in the end of the tunnel.... if you want to talk just email me...

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 9:07am

OMG..... again WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 9:45am
OK~ ME AGAIN.... I think that most importantly--- I know that this phone call from this POS doesn't change anything.... I know what kind of person he is.... I know he probably made these same phone calls to her when he was with me.... I know he's not going to leave her... and more importantly--- I don't want him to ... because I sure as hell dont want him back!!! I feel better now :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2004
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 11:22am

LoL... just relax... mine is doing the same thing except he doesn't say he loves me... but he did tell me that if he was happy with this woman he wouldn't be calling me or trying to see me.. i was like look, you need to leave me alone and if you say what you say you are then its all you and your decision to stick around... whatever... im done i really give up!!! :-(

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 12:28pm

I agree with sweetivy, you aren't his shrink. LOL


Think about it, why is he telling you? To get a reaction, for you to have sympathy, so you will be SUCKED back in.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
In reply to: megans456
Tue, 10-02-2007 - 5:56pm

thanks ladies~ i just got home... I still can't believe he called.... whats killing me is that I know this phone call doesnt mean anything; it doesn't change anything... I dont want him back... but it feels like I;'m starting over.... 1 month has gone by... and no contact he or myself... and I was doing soo good.