Letting go of a loser....

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
Letting go of a loser....
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Mon, 12-17-2007 - 4:50pm
Has anyone dated someone that you pretty much know from day one is not right for you (i.e. red flags flying everywhere) but you continue to date him anyway?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 5:18pm

Welcome to the board freshstart2006,


It would be nice to be able to say 'he's all wrong for me, I'm over it' unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 7:05pm

Hi There Freshstart


Well, I have been a lurker for a few weeks here and just had to respond as I totally understand how you are feeling.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 8:28pm

Hi Karen,


It's nice to know we aren't alone, isn't it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 10:44pm

Yes! And, sadly, more than once!

Warriorgrrl!
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:46am

I just had to chime in on this topic!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 10:55am

I'm in the same boat as the rest of you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 1:59pm
Welcome to the board Karen and thanks for participating.





iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 1:41am

Thanks Carrie


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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2005
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 11:37am

Wow grateful_kaya! You just explained something for me: Choosing a loser because you thought he wouldn't leave you! LOL that's exactly what I did!! And then, when I saw him doing things that indicated a lack of interest I rationalized it like: "Oh he's

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2006
Wed, 12-19-2007 - 11:43am

It is like you are writing the story of my "current life." I learned the last few years that life is like a book with many chapters . Bad things is that

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