Devastated!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2007
Devastated!
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Mon, 12-24-2007 - 2:06pm

My boyfriend of one year and two months just broke up with me yesterday, and I'm just so sad and devastated.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
In reply to: trampolinist
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 2:45pm
<<>>> I'm so sorry you are going through this. That's so messed up
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: trampolinist
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 3:46pm

I'm sorry you are going thru this at this time.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2007
In reply to: trampolinist
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 5:46pm

Thank you both for your kind words!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2004
In reply to: trampolinist
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 6:24pm

Hi-


You deserve a big hug. I am so sorry this happened, which is compounded by the Holidays. I know how you are feeling, and how your heart aches. It hurts so much to think you have trusted in someone, and discover the bad things. Many guys are like this, no matter what their age. I had this happen to me in every decade-teens, 20's,30's, and now early 40's. It still hurts. It is OK to cry to your friends, family, us...Do not allow contact with him. It is so hard, but in the end will help you. Keep on posting.


I am having a hard time w/ No contact as it is so easy to grab the cell. But when I do, it just hurts me more. You deserve better, and will find better. No one deserves the lies.


seachells

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: trampolinist
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 9:42pm

Welcome to the board trampolinist,


Sorry you are going through this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
In reply to: trampolinist
Tue, 12-25-2007 - 8:35am

At least now you have gained some knowledge about men. It took me a few guys and a few times of this happening before I noticed the pattern, but a surefire sign something is wrong and something bad is about to happen is when a guy starts cancelling all plans with you or, even worse, if he just flat out blows you off. A lot of guys have too hard of a time just being honest like that, just breaking up with

Sometimes, I guess there just aren't enough rocks...

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2007
In reply to: trampolinist
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 11:46am

I'm feeling a bit better today about it all.