how to respond?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2007
how to respond?
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 10:28pm
I have a question? What do you do when the guy breaks up with you and after months of NC he sees you out and asks for you to call him sometime? Is this low self-esteem, or is he just trying not to look bad or feel guilty? What is the best way to respond?
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 11:39pm

Some people just say it to be polite. Some people say it to test the waters so to speak if you haven't been on speaking terms.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-23-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 8:35am
He saw you casually and then asked you to call him?
Personally I wouldn't call, if he wants to try to get back with you he should do a little more of an effort and be the one who calls, then you can decide if you want him back . If you don't want him back under no circumstances and you want to "be friends", with no hope or hidden agenda, then go for it.