lost control. now it's over

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
lost control. now it's over
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Fri, 12-28-2007 - 10:14am

Well I lost all control yesterday.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 3:23pm

Jbro2007,


I myself have gone through the same thing that you are going through. In my opinion you are correct in your assumption. He may very well be seeing someone else and out respect for his new relationship he has decided to ignore you. Anymore attempts that you make are only going to cause you more pain. It is in the best interest of your own sanity to try and forget about him. A broken heart is hard to get over especially when you are angry. There is someone in this world for you, let this ^$$ go and that special person will soon be along to bring a much need smile to you.

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 3:59pm

He may or may not have met anyone. He may just be cutting contact because he needs to. I am in a similiar situation- I broke things off and there was a point where he was calling too much and I had to tell him to cut back. If

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 5:32pm

Sweetie, he's in control of the situation right now because he's the one not returning your numerous calls and messages. His behavior is making you angry and hateful. He's all dandy and happy thinking how pissed off you must feel right now. Why give him that power? The more you text and call the more control you give him.

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Registered: 12-17-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 9:57pm

Thank you.

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Registered: 06-09-2004
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 8:45am

Hi-


I am sorry you have to go through this. The "love of my life" break up after 7 years, was horrible, and continued for a while. This was many years ago, and I was out of control. I did horrible things, and made sure he did not end up w/ the girl he was in love with. But it all came at a cost, my self esteem, and this person will never in his life speak to me.


My ex of 3 years & I ended it 2 1/2 months ago. I have behaved poorly. He told me the only way he can handle the breakup is by behaving irrationally & having no contact w/me. I get to see the phoe calls on the cell phone, as we share

seachells

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Registered: 12-17-2007
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 12:12pm
Thank you.