I don't think he's just screwing with you. I thnk the dynamic has changed, though, and the fact that happened needs to be respected. Thing is, he really doesn't need to figure his head and heart out if you never "go away" and that doesn't include this time that you're apart because of circumstance, it has to be after he gets back, it has to be by choice. He has to take some definitive action towards this relationship, get it?
The other thing is that you were the one to actually do the breaking. At least some trust is destroyed when that happens. Then again, he let you. So, when he gets back, take at least the first couple of months really away from each other, see if you can stand it, and then if not, things will naturally take their course But you'll never know unless you are actually strict with yourself on that.
i broke up with my boyfriend over distance too. It's easier for me stick to our decision because there's no way we'd see each other on a day to day basis. Also, I think we had more other issues than you do. But I know it's hard to decide if you did the right thing, we still talk almost everyday and say we miss each other, occasionally an 'i love u' slips out. When I was visiting at his parents, I didn't want to leave, and he didn't want me to leave. I still miss him, I'm confused, i'm undoubtedly sadder without him, I'm not sure if I threw away my last chance at love, etc etc. However, something did drive us to break up, and I don't let myself forget that. I'm starting to accept what I have with him now, and you never know what another year may bring.
I don't think he's just screwing with you. I thnk the dynamic has changed, though, and the fact that happened needs to be respected. Thing is, he really doesn't need to figure his head and heart out if you never "go away" and that doesn't include this time that you're apart because of circumstance, it has to be after he gets back, it has to be by choice. He has to take some definitive action towards this relationship, get it?
The other thing is that you were the one to actually do the breaking. At least some trust is destroyed when that happens. Then again, he let you. So, when he gets back, take at least the first couple of months really away from each other, see if you can stand it, and then if not, things will naturally take their course But you'll never know unless you are actually strict with yourself on that.
Good luck,
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i broke up with my boyfriend over distance too. It's easier for me stick to our decision because there's no way we'd see each other on a day to day basis. Also, I think we had more other issues than you do. But I know it's hard to decide if you did the right thing, we still talk almost everyday and say we miss each other, occasionally an 'i love u' slips out. When I was visiting at his parents, I didn't want to leave, and he didn't want me to leave. I still miss him, I'm confused, i'm undoubtedly sadder without him, I'm not sure if I threw away my last chance at love, etc etc. However, something did drive us to break up, and I don't let myself forget that. I'm starting to accept what I have with him now, and you never know what another year may bring.
good luck!