Should I get back with him

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Should I get back with him
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Wed, 01-02-2008 - 2:48pm

Help me;

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 3:25pm

You said it yourself, more than once, in your post...you parent differently and have broken up 3 previous times due to this issue. Getting back together is NOT going to resolve the issue. You are thinking this way because you are still grieving the loss of the relationship. You need to let this process happen- its normal and natural.


Most advice on this board is for NC. You may need to start that, because you are holding up your recovery by texting/talking/ communicating.


IMO I don't see any good reason for you to get back together with him. You will be hurt again, and hurt the children when the same issues rears it head again for the 5th time.


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 5:16pm
Thanks for the feedback and I can't believe most people on the message board are non christains. I was hoping for christian feed back. But that is okay. Thanks for the feedback.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 5:55pm

Hi lorjab and welcome.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 9:22pm

Dear Sandra;


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Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 9:29pm
Sorry folks for my spelling I do the spell check thing then