You said it yourself, more than once, in your post...you parent differently and have broken up 3 previous times due to this issue. Getting back together is NOT going to resolve the issue. You are thinking this way because you are still grieving the loss of the relationship. You need to let this process happen- its normal and natural.
Most advice on this board is for NC. You may need to start that, because you are holding up your recovery by texting/talking/ communicating.
IMO I don't see any good reason for you to get back together with him. You will be hurt again, and hurt the children when the same issues rears it head again for the 5th time.
Thanks for the feedback and I can't believe most people on the message board are non christains. I was hoping for christian feed back. But that is okay. Thanks for the feedback.
You said it yourself, more than once, in your post...you parent differently and have broken up 3 previous times due to this issue. Getting back together is NOT going to resolve the issue. You are thinking this way because you are still grieving the loss of the relationship. You need to let this process happen- its normal and natural.
Most advice on this board is for NC. You may need to start that, because you are holding up your recovery by texting/talking/ communicating.
IMO I don't see any good reason for you to get back together with him. You will be hurt again, and hurt the children when the same issues rears it head again for the 5th time.
Hi lorjab and welcome.
Dear Sandra;