I do really know how you feel, but I remind myself that I can't move forward if i keep looking back. You just have to redefine your new life as it is now. You don't have a choice. Not that you don't have a right to be sad...but be sad in the present, not the past. Make any sense?
ha ha! Rob, i've been watching the same shows!!! Maybe it's something about new kitchen or bathroom design that makes the heartbroken feel better??? ha ha! I also watch the food network...no idea why since I'm a terrible cook!
I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same way, although, not as bad.
It's been 10 months for me.
You have to find new stuff to do.