Rejection. Is that why I am so hurt?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
Rejection. Is that why I am so hurt?
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Thu, 01-03-2008 - 8:26pm

Hi,


I was on the

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 9:10pm

jbro


Very interesting you feel this way; I too have been posting lately about something similiar. I broke it off with my ex after 3 years. I feel like you, yet I was not rejected exactly. He had a hook up a year ago, we reconciled and I ended it again mainly because of trust issues. Although I also do not miss him....but I am enraged at the thought of him with someone else!


Maybe in a way I was rejected the night he hooked up with the other girl, I dont know. I do know he wants to be with me and back together and it is not happening. I have told him to move on- yet I get so upset (especially on the weekends) wondering who he is hooking up with or hitting on, or just plain interested in.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 9:28pm

Hi lovergrl


Could be.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 10:12pm

I didn't realize you were actually replaced!! I'm so sorry- I guess that does change how you might feel. I thought you were hypothesizing, like I was.


I am sure you are feeling rejection- that is only natural. I hope I understood you correctly when you said you don't miss him- if so, that is probably a good sign that you have come to terms with this.


Hope things look brighter soon, for you and all of us on this board!