Ex left Voicemail, I refuse to call back

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Registered: 06-09-2004
Ex left Voicemail, I refuse to call back
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Sat, 01-05-2008 - 8:34am

Hi-


After being on the this board, and working on accepting he was not the right one for me, I am hoping I turned the corner. I have had my cell off for a few days. When I turned it on last night, there was a call from him. Nothing about us, just blah blah blah, and he's busy, had a NY Eve wedding, and about the cell phone. Well I decided I do much better w/ no contact. SO even though we have to transfer the cell phone and get separate lines, I am not doing it until I am ready. He had his chances to do what I asked, but would not call me back as he needed NC. Now he can pay the bill, until I had my fill of NC. Even if I get stuck w/the January bill, it is OK.


The hardest thing will be not opening the December bill when it arrives, as I will see all of his activity. SO I am going to give it to my mom and ask her not to give it to me for at least 1 month.

seachells

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Registered: 02-23-2005
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 12:12pm
I think you are very strong...I'm not sure what else to say but that...i admire that! We are here to support you no matter what!

 

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Registered: 12-17-2007
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 8:08pm

sounds perfect.