should friends hang out with your Ex?
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should friends hang out with your Ex?
| Sun, 01-06-2008 - 2:05pm |
maybe i am emotionally sensitive. but i have to ask what the gallery feels about this. My ex was in town this weekend, but I wasn't there. He called to chat, and he was hanging out later, i asked him who, and he said he called one of my girlfriends. I got upset, because the only reason they know each other is because i used to call her to hangout with me and my boyfriend. I'm upset at him, who left me a message the same morning starting with "hi baby" and ending with "i miss u". I'm upset at her, she didn't tell me. I feel like she should of told me or said no. I mean is one night of hanging out with my ex (who is just passing through town) more important than girl-friendship?

It's funny. I actually enouraged my ex to stay friends with my group, and told them the same and that they didn't have to avoid him at all. One of my female friends emailed him to find out how he was and that didn't bother me at all. I actually was the one who convinced her to do so! Plus she has a boyfriend anyway (her bf was actually a good friend of mine and I fixed them up lol). And the other night, when I was on the phone with my ex, he said he would still like to hang out with my group - far in the future of course, once we're technically "over" each other, although I doubt we'll ever be at this rate!
So maybe, yeah they can. He probably needs a sympathetic ear right now. Your friend will provide that to him. Since you really can't right now. As long as you trust him then I don't see a problem.