I can see him again-ugh

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
I can see him again-ugh
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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 9:33pm

My ex and I broke up about 3 mos ago after a 3+ year relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 11:51pm

I'm myspace obsessed right now too. I constantly keep checking my ex's page to see if anything is updated. Anyways, is there anyway you can block that page from your computer. I think there is. You may need a password to set it though, so maybe you can ask one of your friends to come over and create the password so you cant go back and un-block the page.

Good luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 12:19am

i had the EXACT same problem. so I blocked him. If he looks for me, I don't exist on facebook. He would have to ask his friends if they can see your profile and why can't he? which prob won't happen. if my ex does find out and asks, i'm prepared with the statement that i don't want to tempt myself to see his business and get myself upset.

i think there is no harm in that

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-13-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 7:30pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Mon, 01-07-2008 - 7:33pm
how long have you and your ex been broken up, and how long have you tried to remain friends? We are going on 3 months but I dont know it will work. Its not like we do anything together, we just talk on the phone a few times a week. At times there is even little to say because so many topics seem like they are off limits- especially our personal life. I don't want him to know what I'm up to cause I sense jealousy in his voice, even though he tries to act like its ok. And I dont even ask him what he's been doing becasue Im not sure I can handle the answer either. So its just a lot of small talk...I dont even know if that makes us freinds.