daisy2378

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Registered: 12-17-2007
daisy2378
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Tue, 01-08-2008 - 4:32pm

Ok everyone.


Daisy is a big girl. I know that everyone is only trying to help, but some of the post are getting a little personal.


She is in love, she is hurting and confused.

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Registered: 02-21-2007
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 4:36pm
Thank you so much!!
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Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 6:08pm
I must agree because I did not do the NC thing. But I can see why it is probably best in the majority of situations.
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Registered: 12-17-2007
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 7:47pm
Thanks lovergrl18. I am sure Daisy2378 thanks you too for your support
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Registered: 11-09-2004
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 10:02pm

THANK YOU!! The no contact thing doesn't work for me either. As a matter of fact, it only makes things worse. People have been really hard on me about this (not on this board though), and I just wish they would shut up.


And "Daisy2378", my professional counsellor told me that you don't have to do the "no contact" thing. If contact works for you, then it's fine. As long as it's not making the grieving worse. She said in my case, the contact seems to be working out fine.

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Registered: 02-21-2007
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 10:06pm

Nicole,


Not sure if you read my other post......I dont agree with the no contact thing, but at this point I dont have much choice.

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Registered: 11-09-2004
In reply to: jbro2007
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 11:37pm

Sorry Daisy, I only read the first post on that topic. I guess stuff had been updated since then.


I don't see mine and I getting back together. The reasons we broke up will not just magically disappear. The only thing that could change us is time ... and by that, I mean years. But, I don't believe we will ever lose contact. Through our whole relationship, we were more like best friends anyway (adding on the physical of course). I don't know what the future holds, but right now, it doesn't seem as dreadful as it once did ...