Can he be over it?
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Can he be over it?
| Thu, 01-10-2008 - 6:53pm |
You guys are all going to think I'm crazy...the last day or so I have one thought going thru my mind....is he over me? Like that, after 3+ years together?
I ended it, I know I should not care, but I can't help it, I do.

Sorry that you're having a bad day!
I do think that as a very, very general rule, men tend to move on more quickly at least on the surface.
northwestwanderer
thanks for sharing your story. I am sorry you had that happen to you. How did you deal with the fact he had someone else 2 weeks later? That will be the next hurdle i have to overcome. The fact there is someone new.
The bad days are really bad, aren't they?
Oh, as you can imagine, it was hell.
I think generally men take longer to get over a relationship.
I have "read" that guys take longer but I don't know if that's true- whenever I see them, they seem to be doing so much better than a girl does. They do mask their feelings but they also get right out there and hookup with as many girls as they can (at least in college) and it makes you wonder. I know they think that's the way to get over their ex- but I wonder if they really care about their ex and are just happy they have this new freedom to get something guilt free now.
I wish I knew the real answer to this. I would love to know if my ex was over me too. He also called and texted a lot- like lovergrl's guy is, but I also wondered if that was for his own ego- just to see if I would talk to him.
Guys are so confusing but the thing that bothers me the most is how they can just bed a girl so soon after their heart was supposedly broken :(