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| Tue, 03-25-2008 - 2:45am |
i was looking at six months worth of my posts about my breakup, and i just wanted to thank everyone who's helped me. this is so late, i know! but i've always felt so appreciative of everyone's input and support.
during the breakup, i saw how ugly and self-serving


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hi standintall, i think there's a little confusion about my situation. my ex-bf was the one who dumped me, and he was the one who jumped into a relationship immediately afterward with another girl who had been an issue. we had problems, but i'd felt blindsided because i thought we both wanted to work things out (and he said he did before.
the things that i wish had done differently had to do with our long-distance status, not the way the break up or anything after the breakup happened. i cared for him and loved him and thought we'd spend our lives together, and thought he felt the same way.
i don't think i'm self-centered. my posts here have been full of sadness over what happened and also at times, anger. yes, much of me wishes he would feel pain too because he caused me so much and i didn't deserve it. he was incredibly mean at the end, almost like he wanted to "undo" every nice thing he'd ever done.
Edited 3/25/2008 5:30 am ET by standintall
Edited 3/25/2008 1:35 pm ET by standintall
Ah one more question for you... When you were going through all that the past 6 months were you seeing anyone or dating? Where you just in your apartment by yourself hoping everything went well? I'n my recent break my X lived in my/our apartment (where she was talking/thinking/wanting him all the while making me feel that I was the one). Then we got through a special situation she had that kept her grounded (I stayed by her side the whole time b/c I wanted too, and I believed in us) we'll say and the FIRST day she's out BANG she's gone! Sorry, I'm getting off the subject! I guess my question is easy, did you have some one else?
hi again, no worries. i wasn't offended, just a little confused.
i hope all goes well with you too. try to focus on yourself and not on what she's thinking/saying (esp. since the two didn't really match up before). i know it's easier said than done. hang in there; it does get better
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