Update:ended it for good it seems

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Update:ended it for good it seems
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Tue, 03-25-2008 - 8:52am

he called a few times this morning (he doesnt usually get up till way late, so i have no idea why he was up at 8:30) anyways i finally picked up and he said he's moving tomorrow, so i have to come by tonight to get my stuff. ugh! i have to work until 6, what should i do? i know i have to go, but when i get there, this is going to be so hard! any advise?

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Registered: 10-08-2006
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:28am

Is there someone that can pick up your stuff for you?

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Registered: 03-02-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:29am

Yes...
#1- Look effortlessly fabulous!
#2- Take only what you need to
#3- Be busy...grab your stuff, bring a friend with you (or have one call), and say you have to get moving- you have plans!

Good luck...I am dreading this day as well. Let us know how it goes.

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Registered: 03-25-2008
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:32am

ur at the better end right now trust me, imagine being the one to have to pack all belongings visible and hidden, after living together for 2 years and being engaged for 2 months (there must be something about the number 2) not to mention 12 years of back and forth, hold ur head up high, get ur stuff and feel free to let it all out once u r alone, u will be ok


not to mention is that not what they expect us to do lose control? isnt it better to keep him wondering, how was she so ok? trust me jus let it all out when u r alone,


hope to hear from u, smile


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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 9:41am

yeah i have to get it, i have an expensive picture, and my skateboard and a few other things that i want. i kind of want to see him, maybe just so i can look good, and show him i'm fine, though i'm not and he knows how emotional i am, but i mean i havent called him since the break up, and i told him on the phone i was busy tonight but would come quickly.


i'm not expecting anything, i'm hoping he misses me but i'm not expecting him to say anything like that to me, which is good to know i think. i just still love him so much, even though i know i should be mad (which i am sometimes!) i just got so upset last night as to why he could do this to me, just break it off and run. its very sad to know he can do this. its not so bad though thats hes moving out, hes moving away from the girl i hated him to talk to, at least theres some good in it.


i just wish i had time to prepare, and i think because i still am in love with him, that i want things to work out, but he seems to have moved on. im sure hes still in love with me, so maybe it will be hard for us two. i guess im upset that i know i wont see him for so long after tonight.

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 3:49pm
one more hour! and i have to go home and get the car. any more advise on how to handle it? if not ill let you know how it goes
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Registered: 09-28-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 8:20pm

sorry, i have no advice. but i just want to wish you lots of luck! i don't know if i'd be able to seem him right afterwards like you are.

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 03-25-2008 - 11:17pm

update in new post




Edited 3/26/2008 9:16 am ET by stepheb