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| Tue, 03-25-2008 - 4:00pm |
Got to thinking today, after I tried this out yesterday and today....
Everyone has heard of or read "the secret" right? Well, I read a book a long time ago called "excuse me your life is waiting". Same theme. And it was during a time I thought my life had ended after my breakup. It helped me to understand I had to pick myself up , wipe myself off, and start attracting like "kind" - i.e positive vibes.
My suggestion for each of you who reads my post is go to a "happy" board. I went to the newly engaged board. I know this may kill some of you to read the posts. But the vibes and words are so full of happiness and joy. Something you need to attract. Something you need to see as a "good" thing, that one day those posts will be yours ! Then come back to this board and vent if you need to.
But, it truly helped me. Sure I felt sad that I'm where I'm at - but I know one day the happiness will be mine again.
And well, I found out that my ex is planning to visit me in July. Maybe this is starting to work?:) Just kidding. He is coming out here as a friend, and its a few months away. Just made me really happy bc all of my other friends flaked out on me, and postponed their trips out here for a few months. I dont expect anyone will visit me. Sad as that may be.
Yes, I know my breakup is very odd, and I didn't really do NC - but had I felt torn or upset with talking to him, I would've asked for complete NC. Seems things are better now for me. And while He & I are not talking everyday, we are friends. Still have a ways to go to where I can ask if hes dating anyone - but I think its not so far off. I have a date tomorrow... granted its not someone I'm truly interested in, but the guy seems fun.
hang in there evryone.

i hope this didn't offend anyone, because this board was a lifesaver for me and i'm sure for other people.