Hello again!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
Hello again!
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Sat, 03-29-2008 - 1:36pm

Posted this as a reply to some1 else but needed others opinion.


Hello Everyone,


I too just broke up with my boyfriend of almost 4 years. Actually I feel like it is a break up over email even though his exact words were " lets take a step back in our relationship" what the heck. We were planning on getting engaged this summer and married next year. Obviously that won't happen. He

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Registered: 03-07-2008
In reply to: marzbarz8
Sat, 03-29-2008 - 3:02pm
Hang in there Marz! Remember, the sooner you are able to heal from this relationship, the sooner you will be able to find the love you want AND DESERVE. NC has been the best thing for me. I realize I have a long way to go...but atleast I can do it with my ego in tact! Lots of luck!! Listen to the advice on here...sometimes it's not what you want to hear but what you need to hear! Read a good breakup book, seek support in friends and family. You will get through this!!!! xx
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
In reply to: marzbarz8
Sat, 03-29-2008 - 3:36pm

Thanks for the support. I have been out of this message board in a long time but what does NC mean again. I have to say I couldn't have gotten through many of my relationships with out the people on this board.


THANKS EVERYONE!


I have been reading a book that I started prior to all of this happening which is the book on "Laws of Attraction" it is where the book the "Secret" came from. I found it to be inspirational and healing at the same time.


Any other suggestions on what other books to read?


Thanks Again,


Marzbarz

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Registered: 03-27-2005
In reply to: marzbarz8
Sat, 03-29-2008 - 3:45pm

There is an absolutly fantastic post in the resources section called, 'when he asks for space' I think, or something very close to that. If your boyfriend has asked to take a step back from the relationship I would hightly suggest that post, it had well written, great advice.


Also, NC = No contact.


Good luck,