My ex has been doing the same (you know I live with him also). Nice phone calls, nice texts, telling me he missed me while I was away this past week too....oh well. too little, too late. Sucks for him! =)
I think they are either trying to gain control or they are confused or other things aren't going well for them and they want the stability that is *us*. I, for one, am not going to give it to him. I gave up on trying to figure out what this look or this comment means. Now HE is the one wondering what I am doing and thinking; and I feel free again.
Glad you got to get away, at least. Helps doesn't it! I was home in NYC this weekend! lol
It hit me all of a sudden. I just got physically sick with worrying all the time and my body and mind just said "Enough is enough!" I am sure I will have setbacks, but I feel much more at peace. You will get there! Don't worry!!! =)
you have to stop worrying. im in the same sitation, and it sounds easier than it is. my ex at first wanted a break up and im ure still does but has been calling and texting way more often. but its all him thats doing the up and down. i went along with it for a week but i cant anymore, i have really bad stomach problems and this stress actually makes me throw up, and hes not even my bf, theres no way im letting him do this to me, up and down thing. relax, focus on work, on yourself, on your friends. he should not be allowed to be so up and down, hes confused, just like you but you arent doing this to him, so why should he do it to you? i know you love him, i love my ex too. but think about what he is doing, and why it ended, i sure am, and its making me easier to let him go through the up and down by himself
It's hard when you live together and you know it's over. We read the signals of the other person especially when they are being nice or what not as something more than it is.
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My ex has been doing the same (you know I live with him also). Nice phone calls, nice texts, telling me he missed me while I was away this past week too....oh well. too little, too late. Sucks for him! =)
I think they are either trying to gain control or they are confused or other things aren't going well for them and they want the stability that is *us*. I, for one, am not going to give it to him. I gave up on trying to figure out what this look or this comment means. Now HE is the one wondering what I am doing and thinking; and I feel free again.
Glad you got to get away, at least. Helps doesn't it! I was home in NYC this weekend! lol
Liz
He apoligised again for being such a jerk the past week!
It hit me all of a sudden. I just got physically sick with worrying all the time and my body and mind just said "Enough is enough!" I am sure I will have setbacks, but I feel much more at peace. You will get there! Don't worry!!! =)
Elizabeth
I am not doing well at all today guys.
Since we live together I have been trying to create my distance by staying in a seperate room at all times and not really talking to him.
Hi ephflank, there is no time limit to grieving.
"I won't let him have it both ways.
I don't know what happened to me, but I feel a thousands times better.
It's hard when you live together and you know it's over. We read the signals of the other person especially when they are being nice or what not as something more than it is.
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