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| Tue, 04-01-2008 - 2:00am |
Hey guys and gals,
Well, things recently ended with a guy I have been with for over 2 years. When I say recently, I mean less than 2 weeks. I found out the other day that he is already having sex with a girl who I KNEW I did not trust while we were dating. I know it's now none of my business what he does now, but I am hurt, upset, and IRATE. I don't know how to deal with this rage, does anyone have any good tips? Giving this girl a good talking to is on the top of my list, but I know that would not be the best way to deal with it. Going out and doing the same is also up there, but that wouldn't make me feel better in the long run. Any advice, any at all, would be appreciated... please, this is keeping me up at night. Thanks guys!
Well, things recently ended with a guy I have been with for over 2 years. When I say recently, I mean less than 2 weeks. I found out the other day that he is already having sex with a girl who I KNEW I did not trust while we were dating. I know it's now none of my business what he does now, but I am hurt, upset, and IRATE. I don't know how to deal with this rage, does anyone have any good tips? Giving this girl a good talking to is on the top of my list, but I know that would not be the best way to deal with it. Going out and doing the same is also up there, but that wouldn't make me feel better in the long run. Any advice, any at all, would be appreciated... please, this is keeping me up at night. Thanks guys!

Welcome to the board lapritchard,
Yeah, don't bother with the 'good talking to' with her, it will do no good and make you look like the 'crazy one'. Instead, scream in a pillow, exercise (kick boxing or punch a punching bag) and write both of them UNSENT letters telling them off, then burn it.
i'm so sorry you're going through this.