Confront ex about cheating?

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Registered: 04-06-2008
Confront ex about cheating?
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Sun, 04-06-2008 - 2:36pm

My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a few weeks ago.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-06-2008 - 2:53pm

Welcome to the board tulipgirl9,


Don't contact him or confront him.

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Registered: 02-22-2008
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 3:22pm

hi tulipgirl9, i m going to be straight forward-hope u dont get offended...he sounds like a coward for admitting what he did, obviously he cheated two days after the break and he is in love w someone else and plan a trip w them?? then go onto to tell u that he feels the relationship in at a plateau??? and after the breakup he will be there for u?? thats a bunch of bs-he will be on vaca w this other woman after the breakup and he will be running back to u when karma does its magic.

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Registered: 04-06-2008
Wed, 04-09-2008 - 1:38am

Pinkstar2008, no offense taken.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 04-09-2008 - 1:25pm

When I say you may be given the opportunity to have your say at some point in the future, I mean just that. You don't know how the next meeting with him will unfold. He could have a weak moment and tell you he misses you and it could lead right to the conversation about 'really? because the way I heard it.....'.


It might not even be at the next meeting.