"Holding my Tongue"

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Registered: 01-12-2007
"Holding my Tongue"
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Sun, 04-06-2008 - 5:06pm

Hey you guys

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-06-2008 - 6:22pm
You are right, after breaking up, he gives up the right to KNOW those things about you, your schedule, etc.
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Sun, 04-06-2008 - 7:54pm

Hmmm, well no contact is pretty impossible to do when you live together. I know some people try it by giving the "cold shoulder" but that is an extreme form of *contact,* not "no contact." Just sitting there being mute doesn't constitute as no contact. Staying away from each other as much as humanly possible and not participating in any unnecessary discussion or discourse, that counts as no contact.

Just tell him whatever you want on the way out the door. Be aware, that at that point you've stooped to level that isn't your natural standard.

Good luck,

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Registered: 01-12-2007
Sun, 04-06-2008 - 9:27pm

Yea, its more I want him to know that its unacceptable to talk to me like that.

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Registered: 01-12-2007
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 12:28pm

First off thanks so much for the post and for listening to all my crazy rants.

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Registered: 03-27-2005
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 1:27pm


Congratulations on finding the new place! That must be a huge load of your shoulders. :D


>I don't want to come across as this weak, desperate person.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2007
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 6:41pm

Haha, I have a feeling that if I waved goodbye to him it would be a one finger wave!!! LOL.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2007
Mon, 04-07-2008 - 6:45pm
forgot one thing!
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Registered: 03-10-2008
Tue, 04-08-2008 - 2:40am
That letter is pretty powerful, yet suttle. I admire your strength!