4 months split up-4 days NC!!!!!
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| Tue, 04-08-2008 - 2:34pm |
Sounds pathetic doesnt it? Split up for four months and Ive only stopped contacting for four days. Ive took all of your advice which was really great. For once it feels I have some sort of control. The one thing i keep asking myself is though does he still love me? He says he doesnt but I need to know if he is just saying it. Is there still a chance for us? We were eachothers first love! And surely 4 years of us being together should count for something. I mean can you just fall out of love just like that? I no I sound pathetic and if I was giving myself advice id tell myself to snap the hell out of it and pull myself together!! But its just not that easy when its yourself is it. So basically what I want to know is how to get out of this horrible feeling of wanting to no why and how? How long will it last for?
Somebody please help me
Natalie xxxx

Remember:
Natalie. I'm at 9 days 6 NC. Welcome on board!
I know its very difficult. It's only been 6 days for me, and it still hurts. I'd love to say that it will be better soon, but I cannot say that. It will be hard, but you will get through it, I can promise you that much. You have to stay strong. You're going to have these horrible cravings to call him... call a friend instead. E-mail me! Whatever it takes. The urge will pass and you will be able to carry on with your day.
Something that helps me; Each day you go; you are one day closer to letting him go.
We're in the same spot, please talk to me if ya need to!