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He's my neighbor.....
| Thu, 04-10-2008 - 8:14pm |
I posted before about how my bf (who happens to live 2 houses down from me) and I broke up.
| Thu, 04-10-2008 - 8:14pm |
I posted before about how my bf (who happens to live 2 houses down from me) and I broke up.
Just two things, briefly.
One is, there's no shame in being 'duped' as you put it. I see it more as you took a chance on him and it didn't pan out. I doubt anybody could have predicted how it would have turned out. In the same reasoning, I think that anyone in your position is more than likely to have made the same mistake. Realize that you mis-read his lying this time and resolve to learn how to judge people better.
On the how to deal, I can only offer you the usual business. Resolve to do something every day - go see a movie, run around the block, anything that requires you to focus as it will distract you from the whole issue. And, what helped me, is that I would not lose my dignity over some guy. I can tell you that Jennifer Aniston was my inspiration during my break up - if that woman can hold it together while her ex husband (most likely) cheated on her and is having kids with the 'other woman' all while rubbing it in her face on every magazine on the bloody planet..I can deal. It's not easy, but I know..KNOW, that you can hold it together.
All the best,
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.