Is he manipulative?
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Is he manipulative?
| Fri, 04-11-2008 - 3:17am |
My ex-boyfriend who I'm trying to be friends with advised me to speak up at work about some issues I was having with management. I knew I could get fired if I did, and I did it anyway and got fired, but now I'm just starting to wonder if he intentionally advised me to do it because he wanted to get back together and thought if I lost my job, I'd be dependent on him and his money.
Am I just looking for someone to blame or do you think he said what he did to trap me? How can I know what his intentions were?
The reason I ask is because when I told him I got fired, he suddenly started acting really nice to me, and then told me he was still hoping we would get back together.
Am I just looking for someone to blame or do you think he said what he did to trap me? How can I know what his intentions were?
The reason I ask is because when I told him I got fired, he suddenly started acting really nice to me, and then told me he was still hoping we would get back together.

Welcome to the board illyriafred,
Maybe he did, maybe he didn't. BUT he is taking advantage of it right now.