She is pregnant

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Registered: 12-25-2006
She is pregnant
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Sat, 04-12-2008 - 11:43am
Hi, it's hard to write for me since it is one of the saddest days of my life.
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Registered: 03-18-2008
In reply to: coolsal
Sat, 04-12-2008 - 12:34pm

I am so sorry you are going through so much pain!

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Registered: 02-22-2008
In reply to: coolsal
Sat, 04-12-2008 - 12:43pm
i m sorry to hear the news that u have to deal with....if she already ask u for no contact then u should do so-if u love her then u would want her to be happy and do wat she ask. it would be best if u just cut ties and take time to heal and move on...
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Registered: 03-24-2006
In reply to: coolsal
Sat, 04-12-2008 - 3:04pm

CoolSal,


Although every breakup situation is different, I believe at the heart, they're all the same. Most everyone here is going through it, or has been through at, and we're all at different points of it. I'm sorry, of course that this pain is on you; No one deserves this kind of pain, but as much as it doesn't make sense now; It does make you stronger.


No Contact will be key here. A relationship is two people; Not one who is convinced of it, and trying to convince the other. It'll be hard, but it's time to just let it go and start mourning the loss; of what could have been but wasn't; It's up to you whether or not to respond to the e-mail. I'd love to say to just not respond; but if you must, please do not beg her back, or try and convince her of your feelings; Do not let her know she has that power over you.


The most important thing is that we're here for you.


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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: coolsal
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 7:42pm

Do Nothing. Seriously, any contact with her will make it worse for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-25-2006
In reply to: coolsal
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 11:47pm
Thanks to all for your words of encouragement.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2007
In reply to: coolsal
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:30pm
Sorry, but she chose her family over you. Respect that and leave her alone and let her have the chance to rebuild her family.