breakup after 3yrs-need advice!

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Registered: 04-12-2008
breakup after 3yrs-need advice!
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Sun, 04-13-2008 - 9:27am
I've been with my guy for three years and our relationship hasn't been great this past year but no matter how many
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Registered: 04-13-2008
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 10:18am

Dear Renee


Listen to your friends.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-13-2008 - 6:54pm

Welcome to the board renee802008,


That statment 'if he really loved me' gets more people into trouble.

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Registered: 03-26-2007
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:38pm
You're better off to move on...trust me
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Registered: 02-21-2003
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 1:06pm

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Everything was not fine from his end. I'm sure he had misgivings and nagging doubts for months, but didn't want to rock the boat until he figured out if these doubts were deal breakers. For me, religion would never be an issue (except if someone was too religious), but for my brother it was. He admits it's an irrational thing, but he just couldn't see marrying someone outside his religion and especially raising his kids in a different religion. He was in a lot of pain after he initiated the breakup, but knew himself well enough to realize it had to be done.

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