Slept with my ex

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Registered: 04-07-2008
Slept with my ex
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Mon, 04-14-2008 - 8:42am

My ex and I broke up rather spectacularly 2 months ago! And he started seeing someone else pretty much straight away!


Anyway I got drunk at a wedding, started feeling lonely and nostalgic and contacted him! We met up at the weekend just to talk - we talked, we cried and we slept together!!


We both still love each other but the problems that split us up are still there and they're not going away!


What the hell do I do now??


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 12:18pm

Hi gal_midgie,


You pick yourself up and start over again with No Contact.

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 04-14-2008 - 9:10pm

What Carrie said.

Same thing happened to me. The important thing is to see it for what it was, not judge yourself, and keep moving forward.

It's okay. :)

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Registered: 04-12-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 8:38pm

If you want him back.. the best thing to do is stop all contact.. emails.. messages..anything.. and start looking after yourself..


exercise..go out out dates... see friends.. keep your days busy,,


try this for one month and see if you hear from him..but wait 30 days before any contact..


let me know when your thirty days is up.. coz im doing the same thing..This men have got to realise we are precious and they are missing out. they have issues..there either scared or sick of our nagging.. they might not feel appreciated anymore.


By the way wats the issue that is keeping you apart?


Do you want to get back together because your lonely.. because that is for the wrong reasons,, you must be happy with yourself first!


mwa


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Registered: 04-14-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:45pm

I agree, just got back together with my ex a few weeks ago after 15 months.


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Registered: 04-07-2008
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 5:45am

Yeah - thats what I was beginning to think!


If he wants me he's going to have to truely

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Registered: 04-07-2008
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 7:15pm

A little update from earlier!


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Registered: 04-07-2008
Sun, 04-20-2008 - 11:23am

He did it to me again!


After getting together last weekend and then a week of almost no

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 04-20-2008 - 4:55pm
HUGS - sorry you are going through this.......