is he playing games??
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| Sat, 04-19-2008 - 8:57am |
dated someone for a couple of months who said he loved me more than he ever loved anyone (never believed this as it was only a couple of months), but i was so different then his ex wife, that i think part of him may have belived that. she was very cold and unaffectionate, they had very seperate lives, and I am a much more mushy, warm partner. during our relationship it was a bit of a challenge for him. He is very reserved, has major issues that go all the way back to his family (he doesn't speak to any of them), they never complimented him growing up, never showed affection, etc... all of these things are a BIG struggle for him.
He admits he wasn't a good husband to his ex and when they got divorced he tried everything he could to keep it together for the sake of his child. he couldn't. till this day he says him letting down his family is the burden he has to bare, the penance he has to pay daily to remind himself that he has hurt people and he must "suffer" for it for a long time to come. when he talks like this it is very very odd and depressing. I told him he needs to go to therapy. he refuses and says it scares him to no end.

Welcome to the board rainydayproblmes,
If anyone says 'you deserve better' believe them.
HI Rainy Day-
I dislike that line as well. However 6 months after me being dumped(4 yr. realationship), it is true, I do deserve better, and so do
seachells