Breakup or not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Breakup or not?
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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 5:22pm

Hello everyone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2008
In reply to: spg41
Mon, 04-21-2008 - 5:48pm

Hi spg


I was married to my ex-husband for 10 yeasr,we had great times at firs, were always friends, no infidelity until we had our son and kind of dedicated all our time to him ( big mistake ).


We started goin our own ways but kept a " cool" marrige, the thing is also tha the sex ended.


We treid to talk about it for a year, then looked for counselin, he didnt go, I did ........ things kept the same so I had and affair because it had been like 2 -3 years withou sex, even though we were still friends but like each had our on lives.


Whe I had the affair I was ever so happy it totally gave me back my self esteem ........... it went on for about 6 month, never told my husband, I was too happy.


The affair ended and I found someone else, and decided to get the divorce,we just fell out of love, so it was amicable.


I had a great relationship for about a year with my now ex, ( Im going through

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: spg41
Mon, 04-21-2008 - 7:38pm

Welcome to the board spg41,


Well, I don't think it's going to be just you deciding on whether or not to break up.