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| Thu, 04-24-2008 - 6:09pm |
Well it is has been about 8 months since I wrote my last post and I am here again for support.
My ex fiance left me in February last year after a 7 year relationship.

Welcome to the board learningagain,
I can understand how you feel and I think it's normal.
It's understandable that you're hurt and angry and it's probably going to take a while to get over that. He basically deceived you about his desire to have kids and being deceived is always painful.
Focusing on accepting that that is the type of man he is and redirecting your thoughts when you think of him towards that acceptance will help you get to the point where you can let go of the anger.
Thanks Jesta217,
Nice to hear what a guy has to say on the matter. I believe it was his way of sealing the deal by having a child with a woman that makes 20 times more money than me, he doesn't have to support her, she apparently supports the whole family. Six weeks into a relationship is a bit soon to plan a pregnancy but that is his life I guess. I am doing very well, in fact my sister had a baby yesterday and it seemed to heal the wound even more which is amazing.
Thanks for your input.