Need Advise on how to get over this

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2008
Need Advise on how to get over this
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 12:25am

me and my boyfiried of over 3 yrs work in the same work place and thats where we met.we were friends before we got into a relationship.when he proposed marriage to me and kept on relating the fact that he would be comitted to me and only marry me.then suddenly he asks me to give him some space which i do,he goes off on a business trip and calls me from there and says he is getting married to someone else.out of the BLUE!!! i had no clues that he was ever thinking this in his head.everytime i try to reach him on his cellphone he oes not answer after that.then when he returs he tells me its all over and that he thinks it would be better if he married someone else.im absolutely devasted,i get to see him everyday.i done have a reason as to why he did this.


All i can think of is that at one point he was so committed and in an instant it was lost.and he wont even give me a reason.he now tells me he still wants me to be his close friend....i mean im going out of my mind.


Please help me i've tried all the post break up tips....but no avail.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 1:08am

Welcome to the board natasha_11,


Have you read this:


Handling Breakups at Work - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22637.1


::suddenly he asks me to give him some space which i do,he goes off on a business trip and calls me from there and says he is getting married to someone else


So, either he's lying, been lying and leading a double life?