I Will never Understand
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| Mon, 04-28-2008 - 8:56pm |
Hi To all this is my first time posting on this board!
To make my very long story short I have been in a realtionship for almost seven years now.of course like any realtionship there are high and lows but these arent normal. When I met b/f I was very young and he was much older than me , but we seem to hit it off so I went along with it. We were really good friends first, then we became intimate after moving in together. I knew he had children but didnt know until after i had gotten pregnant by him that he was MARRIED!
As time went on his wife started to make my life a living hell(I really wish I could give the details). I should have taken that as an opportunity to get out of this mess but I didnt. After catching him cheat on my repeatedly (with not only his wife but other women too) I STILL stayed. I wind up losing my home to the likes of him he stop paying the rent and i didnt know

Sing it, my sister. I've been somewhat in your shoes. My ex-h of almost ten years was also much older than I, was also not great at paying the bills on time, we also had most everything in my name, and he also cheated on me. It all sucked. Then I got a divorce and things are much better now.
I will not lie to you, things were super-tight and fiscally convoluted for several years after the divorce where the royal financial screwing continued, but I am finally OUT of that, hallelujah. It takes time, determination, and the sheer will to not be someone's half-assed second thought. Ok? So suck it up, get yourself and all your stuff out of that place and say so long, sucker.
You need to buck up and get brave. I promise you that whatever hellish financial situation you find yourself in afterwards, will be nirvana and heaven rolled into one compared to the mediocre existence you're living now at some other jerk's mercy.
P.S. I am not kidding.
Best of luck,
Welcome to the board twopinklines1984,
I hope you take Sandra's advice.